difficult child's friend, and our neighbor (I don't know them, though),a kid accidently died from a drug overdose on Friday night. He was only 19. I want to do something, but I don't know what. Their front lawn has a makeshift memorial with flowers, baseball hats....all over. This is so sad. Should I bring over a plant? Some fruit? Send a card.....They don't know who we are, difficult child only knew the kid, he said the family doesn't know him.