Confused and Lost
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I have a 6 year old step-son who is showing some concerning behaviors, he was taken from his mom back last year do to a pot charge and giving to his father, about 6 months after me and his father got together and he is blaming his father because hes not with his mom, and hes blaming me because his dad isnt with his mom, even though his dad and mom havent been together since before he was born and his mom has since remarried. The behaviors he has been exhibiting are no emotions except anger, he gives this look that literlly when you hear about looks can kill his would, he doesnt listen does great in school but the second he is home, he shows no empathy, or concern for others gets enjoyment out of seeing others cry or hurt and enjoys hurting them, he hit my 2 year old son this past week and left hand marks(finger marks) and scraches and just smirked. he blams stuff on the younger kids, He doesnt follow directions or listen, no type of punishment fazes him be it taking away toys, breaking his toys, taking privilages away or other things away, time out in the corner, sending him to his room or popping him on the butt. He also lies about things and when asked doesnt talk just glares and balls up his fists, recently he has added lying to his list and makes up storys to try and get out of trouble, he also admitted to hating his biological half-sister, we want him to go back with his mom, we let him talk to every week, we take him to kansas and let him visit her, but we can't do anything about her getting him back its the courts decision next week were going for the court hearing but doubtful they will let him back until they know for sure that shes not going to repeat her offense, plus since hes been with us hes doing great in school. I just dont know how much i can handle, or what to do im at a lost im worried about the 3 two year olds and whether they will start picking up his behaviors, then we'd have 4 holy terrors on our hands, i worried he might have some type of mental disorder, sociopath, schiphrenic(wrong spelling), or no telling what else, i've told my fiance that we need to get him into counseling and he agrees but we cant afford it and the schools are cutting out funds for school councelors were at a complete stand still, and im edge afraid that if he stays with us and as he gets older he will become one of those kids that kills everyone in the house. PLEASE HELP:'(