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9M difficult child... I'm wearing thin fast.
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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 613865" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Aimless, you are sounding rather different in the way you are talking about your difficult child now. It also wasn't clear (to me, anyway) that he has been involved in hurting others or threatening to hurt them. The amount of help you are receiving also was not clear to me. I am not accusing you - for all its usefulness, I think communication over the internet has real limitations. </p><p></p><p>Squabbling like this in a thread is rather rare here so feelings have obviously been heightened... MWM, I do feel you sometimes tend to see your adopted-son-that-went-wrong in every similar-sounding case, even vaguely-similar-sounding case. We all do tend to project our own circumstances onto others, to some degree. We don't know to what degree attachment was a factor in the case of Aimless's adopted son, though something was clearly very wrong, right from the start. He sounds as if his defences are so well entrenched that it would take some superhuman power to unlock them now; it seems heartbreaking, for all concerned. </p><p></p><p>Is there anyone or anything that could unlock your son, Aimless?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 613865, member: 11227"] Aimless, you are sounding rather different in the way you are talking about your difficult child now. It also wasn't clear (to me, anyway) that he has been involved in hurting others or threatening to hurt them. The amount of help you are receiving also was not clear to me. I am not accusing you - for all its usefulness, I think communication over the internet has real limitations. Squabbling like this in a thread is rather rare here so feelings have obviously been heightened... MWM, I do feel you sometimes tend to see your adopted-son-that-went-wrong in every similar-sounding case, even vaguely-similar-sounding case. We all do tend to project our own circumstances onto others, to some degree. We don't know to what degree attachment was a factor in the case of Aimless's adopted son, though something was clearly very wrong, right from the start. He sounds as if his defences are so well entrenched that it would take some superhuman power to unlock them now; it seems heartbreaking, for all concerned. Is there anyone or anything that could unlock your son, Aimless? [/QUOTE]
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