timer lady
Queen of Hearts
I was sure that my thoughts on this matter were right....however, I've been so sensitive since husband died that there are days I can't tell if I'm coming or going. Titrating off this prednisone isn't helping matters emotionally either.
I hated how brother in law was using his family's dire straits & how he may lose his home. The life insurance I'm receiving isn't that much; has to last me many years (I need to invest it very wisely) as I'm unable to work & disability hasn't come thru yet. brother in law just sees or has heard that I'm getting this money & am going to invest a portion of it in my home. Figures he can do the job as he's out of work.
Andy, Marg, I like the way you have very unemotionally laid it out for me. That's what I need to tell brother in law. My youngest brother also offered to talk to brother in law for me; he thinks he can handle it with-o hard feelings on BILs part. I have a feeling my sister has no idea this is going on ~ she's busy working her butt off. brother in law should be doing the same in looking for work. He should be busy trying the refinance program that banks are soon to be offering & other options like temp work.
Instead he's looking for ways to take my antique claw foot & baby claw foot tubs out of here & selling them for his gain. The same with my extra mini van. I'm sure if he had a computer or laptop of mine he'd be offering it for sell as well. Not seeing that I'm going to need the funds in the future is so hurtful.
I cannot support his family & mine. Thank you for clarifying this for me. I'm printing this out for my conversation with brother in law later this week.
I knew I could count on you all for helping me think clearly on this one.
I hated how brother in law was using his family's dire straits & how he may lose his home. The life insurance I'm receiving isn't that much; has to last me many years (I need to invest it very wisely) as I'm unable to work & disability hasn't come thru yet. brother in law just sees or has heard that I'm getting this money & am going to invest a portion of it in my home. Figures he can do the job as he's out of work.
Andy, Marg, I like the way you have very unemotionally laid it out for me. That's what I need to tell brother in law. My youngest brother also offered to talk to brother in law for me; he thinks he can handle it with-o hard feelings on BILs part. I have a feeling my sister has no idea this is going on ~ she's busy working her butt off. brother in law should be doing the same in looking for work. He should be busy trying the refinance program that banks are soon to be offering & other options like temp work.
Instead he's looking for ways to take my antique claw foot & baby claw foot tubs out of here & selling them for his gain. The same with my extra mini van. I'm sure if he had a computer or laptop of mine he'd be offering it for sell as well. Not seeing that I'm going to need the funds in the future is so hurtful.
I cannot support his family & mine. Thank you for clarifying this for me. I'm printing this out for my conversation with brother in law later this week.
I knew I could count on you all for helping me think clearly on this one.
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