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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 752590" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Well. M came over this morning to help me and his first words were,<em> I'm not sure this is going to work out, with J.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>J was to report to work at 7 am (he would have had to leave for the bus at 645. He was still in bed when M got up at 645. He didn't leave the apartment until well after 7, and had to have been close to an hour and a half late. His first day.</p><p></p><p>I had offered to bring over an alarm clock. <em>Oh no. I won't need that. I have my phone. Anyway, I wake up early.</em></p><p></p><p>J knows that we will require a signed note on letterhead, that he worked today. Both M and I were anxious and exhausted. The awareness that J is directing everything. And every day disaster will present itself, and I will have to deal. I try to explain detachment to M and he doesn't get it, no matter what I say. I guess I don't get it so well, either.</p><p></p><p>I know I have to let go of the result. To really, really accept that J controls everything, especially the consequences of his decisions and acts. But it's hard to relax. </p><p></p><p>J is just so squirrely. He holds everything and everybody responsible except himself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 752590, member: 18958"] Well. M came over this morning to help me and his first words were,[I] I'm not sure this is going to work out, with J. [/I] J was to report to work at 7 am (he would have had to leave for the bus at 645. He was still in bed when M got up at 645. He didn't leave the apartment until well after 7, and had to have been close to an hour and a half late. His first day. I had offered to bring over an alarm clock. [I]Oh no. I won't need that. I have my phone. Anyway, I wake up early.[/I] J knows that we will require a signed note on letterhead, that he worked today. Both M and I were anxious and exhausted. The awareness that J is directing everything. And every day disaster will present itself, and I will have to deal. I try to explain detachment to M and he doesn't get it, no matter what I say. I guess I don't get it so well, either. I know I have to let go of the result. To really, really accept that J controls everything, especially the consequences of his decisions and acts. But it's hard to relax. J is just so squirrely. He holds everything and everybody responsible except himself. [/QUOTE]
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