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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 752781" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I think this would have been a wiser approach. When we got to this point we were already fed up, cornered, extremists. My son had violated every agreement, condition that had ever been dreamed, and I was only thinking of how to think up something that would give us hope.</p><p></p><p>The idea gave hope. The reality did not. The (new) agreement with M was that my son would go Monday to the job and get the verification for last week. Apparently, he did not because he returned to the apartment quite late, without anything, saying he had felt "bad" and that tomorrow he'd make it right. M told him. <em>It' s always tomorrow.</em></p><p>No. We were going to do it ongoing. But as I understand it, he may be squatting in the yard. Because he did not comply with the agreement, M did not let him in.</p><p></p><p>Everything has fallen apart. He's blocking me on the phone. He's likely squatting. We think he's now without money for food, even without paying anything for rent. I fear he might be using hard drugs. Even like Meth. His loving personality has been overridden. He seems to not be operating from any moral sense or bottom line.</p><p>We have tried a tight leash but my son has never accepted it. Not even at the age of your son, Wise.</p><p></p><p>I am very sad. And scared. We have no place left to stand.</p><p></p><p>I spoke just now to M. It seems my son did not sleep in the yard last night. That's good. I feared the need to repeatedly go there late at night to ask him to leave. Calling the police. Last year that happened. I was on the brink of getting a restraining order. I am very sad.</p><p></p><p>I recognize I have left no stone unturned. It does not help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 752781, member: 18958"] I think this would have been a wiser approach. When we got to this point we were already fed up, cornered, extremists. My son had violated every agreement, condition that had ever been dreamed, and I was only thinking of how to think up something that would give us hope. The idea gave hope. The reality did not. The (new) agreement with M was that my son would go Monday to the job and get the verification for last week. Apparently, he did not because he returned to the apartment quite late, without anything, saying he had felt "bad" and that tomorrow he'd make it right. M told him. [I]It' s always tomorrow.[/I] No. We were going to do it ongoing. But as I understand it, he may be squatting in the yard. Because he did not comply with the agreement, M did not let him in. Everything has fallen apart. He's blocking me on the phone. He's likely squatting. We think he's now without money for food, even without paying anything for rent. I fear he might be using hard drugs. Even like Meth. His loving personality has been overridden. He seems to not be operating from any moral sense or bottom line. We have tried a tight leash but my son has never accepted it. Not even at the age of your son, Wise. I am very sad. And scared. We have no place left to stand. I spoke just now to M. It seems my son did not sleep in the yard last night. That's good. I feared the need to repeatedly go there late at night to ask him to leave. Calling the police. Last year that happened. I was on the brink of getting a restraining order. I am very sad. I recognize I have left no stone unturned. It does not help. [/QUOTE]
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