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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 710419" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If she is borderline, she wants something. They dont just change. If daughter has lied to you and gone back on promises before, why do you think she is being honest now? by the way borderlines tend to choose mean abusive men. Your daughter chose him. This is on her, not him. She doesnt have to listen to his dark desires but she does. Again this is on her, not him.</p><p></p><p>Guard your heart. Nothing you say should cause her to.do.this or that. She is manipulating you.for her gain and it is no real relationship.if you must watch every word. Has it happened before that you thought she was better only to have your heart shattered?</p><p></p><p>She knows you get guilty easily and exploits that. Borderlines think differently, lack empathy (important!) and dont suddenly see the light. She would need years of therapy and hard work. Does she admit she has problems? Does she get angry when you say she does?</p><p></p><p>Why am I saying these things? Because I hope you take care of yourself and dont let her shatter your kind heart. Learn that this is how she is. Read Walking on Eggshelps by Randi Krieger. Great book.</p><p></p><p>I wish you good luck, light and love.</p><p></p><p>God give me the Serenity to accept the things I can not change,</p><p>The Courage to change the things I can.</p><p>And the Wisdom to know the difference.</p><p></p><p>Guard.your.heart. Love yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 710419, member: 1550"] If she is borderline, she wants something. They dont just change. If daughter has lied to you and gone back on promises before, why do you think she is being honest now? by the way borderlines tend to choose mean abusive men. Your daughter chose him. This is on her, not him. She doesnt have to listen to his dark desires but she does. Again this is on her, not him. Guard your heart. Nothing you say should cause her to.do.this or that. She is manipulating you.for her gain and it is no real relationship.if you must watch every word. Has it happened before that you thought she was better only to have your heart shattered? She knows you get guilty easily and exploits that. Borderlines think differently, lack empathy (important!) and dont suddenly see the light. She would need years of therapy and hard work. Does she admit she has problems? Does she get angry when you say she does? Why am I saying these things? Because I hope you take care of yourself and dont let her shatter your kind heart. Learn that this is how she is. Read Walking on Eggshelps by Randi Krieger. Great book. I wish you good luck, light and love. God give me the Serenity to accept the things I can not change, The Courage to change the things I can. And the Wisdom to know the difference. Guard.your.heart. Love yourself. [/QUOTE]
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