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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 710602" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oh, I know. But you love the others too and I know from experience that neglecting their kindness can push them away. Then you are stuck alone with difficult adult and her drama and nobody else. We need to keep appreciating those who live well and love us right. Without my kinder adult kids and a nice adult childs grandchild (a girl who will never be taken out of my life or abused herself) and my loving husband, my life would be a lonely nightmare. </p><p></p><p>Meanwhile i did so much to fix difficult 39 year old and he is still difficult, rude, abusive at times and never calls on special days or to ask about me or sends a birthday card to anyone in the family. Not all difficult adults change and if they do one person can not take the place of all the others who can get lost in the fray.</p><p></p><p>Take care of yourself and your other loved ones too. Dont let one defiant, irresponsible adilt child push your own welfare or that of the others out of the way. All kids hope their mother loves and is interested in them. This daughter is not the only one. Also you will have other grands that will want your love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 710602, member: 1550"] Oh, I know. But you love the others too and I know from experience that neglecting their kindness can push them away. Then you are stuck alone with difficult adult and her drama and nobody else. We need to keep appreciating those who live well and love us right. Without my kinder adult kids and a nice adult childs grandchild (a girl who will never be taken out of my life or abused herself) and my loving husband, my life would be a lonely nightmare. Meanwhile i did so much to fix difficult 39 year old and he is still difficult, rude, abusive at times and never calls on special days or to ask about me or sends a birthday card to anyone in the family. Not all difficult adults change and if they do one person can not take the place of all the others who can get lost in the fray. Take care of yourself and your other loved ones too. Dont let one defiant, irresponsible adilt child push your own welfare or that of the others out of the way. All kids hope their mother loves and is interested in them. This daughter is not the only one. Also you will have other grands that will want your love. [/QUOTE]
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