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<blockquote data-quote="DarkwingPsyduck" data-source="post: 688318" data-attributes="member: 20267"><p>Well, sexuality isn't a choice. We are attracted to what we are attracted to. She could very well be bisexual. Preferring neither gender over the other, but the person themselves. Though, I don't think this is really relevant to this discussion.</p><p></p><p>She seems to be dependent on others. Which makes it incredibly easy to take advantage of her. Which is unfortunate. I would suggest making sure she knows that she isn't just stuck in a bad situation. That you love her, and that you will be there should she ever decide to make some changes. You do not need to condone or enable her bad behavior, but she is much more likely to want to change if she knows there is something worth changing for. Like her family. I am sure feelings are hurt on both sides, and she may not feel like she has options anymore. People who don't think they have something to lose generally don't make healthy decisions. I know she hasn't lost you. You are here for a reason, after all. Make sure she understands that, too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DarkwingPsyduck, post: 688318, member: 20267"] Well, sexuality isn't a choice. We are attracted to what we are attracted to. She could very well be bisexual. Preferring neither gender over the other, but the person themselves. Though, I don't think this is really relevant to this discussion. She seems to be dependent on others. Which makes it incredibly easy to take advantage of her. Which is unfortunate. I would suggest making sure she knows that she isn't just stuck in a bad situation. That you love her, and that you will be there should she ever decide to make some changes. You do not need to condone or enable her bad behavior, but she is much more likely to want to change if she knows there is something worth changing for. Like her family. I am sure feelings are hurt on both sides, and she may not feel like she has options anymore. People who don't think they have something to lose generally don't make healthy decisions. I know she hasn't lost you. You are here for a reason, after all. Make sure she understands that, too. [/QUOTE]
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