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A mother's pain..enough is enough
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<blockquote data-quote="CARP_ENOUGH" data-source="post: 723294" data-attributes="member: 22468"><p>Thank you "wisernow" I also thought love, money, faith and resistance to negativity would prevail but no way! I am detaching daily. I find myself being pulled back in though...it is so hard. My son came back from San Diego and now his drivers license is suspended because he did not pay a traffic ticket and of course I helped him pay it today like a dum, weak person that I feel like a mother. He did not even "thank me" he told me he is so tired of everything happening to him and that he is messed up because he feels I lied to him his whole life and he blamed every part of our family for his lack of positivity..I just had another punch in the gut today from my 22 yr old son...I am done now...it's like a vicious cycle. My husband doesn't want to hear anything or speak to him again..it's easier for him to detach and tougher than I. I need to continue therapy myself...this is a great forum and I feel I have some friends now that understand..hugsxoxoxo CarPas</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CARP_ENOUGH, post: 723294, member: 22468"] Thank you "wisernow" I also thought love, money, faith and resistance to negativity would prevail but no way! I am detaching daily. I find myself being pulled back in though...it is so hard. My son came back from San Diego and now his drivers license is suspended because he did not pay a traffic ticket and of course I helped him pay it today like a dum, weak person that I feel like a mother. He did not even "thank me" he told me he is so tired of everything happening to him and that he is messed up because he feels I lied to him his whole life and he blamed every part of our family for his lack of positivity..I just had another punch in the gut today from my 22 yr old son...I am done now...it's like a vicious cycle. My husband doesn't want to hear anything or speak to him again..it's easier for him to detach and tougher than I. I need to continue therapy myself...this is a great forum and I feel I have some friends now that understand..hugsxoxoxo CarPas [/QUOTE]
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