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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 27885" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>boyfriend and I discussed things and decided we will go on a day to day basis with ant, and encourage him to continue to seek other housing and establish credit.</p><p></p><p>meanwhile ant is acting like nothing happened. (his dad used to do the same..be ignorant and vile and then act like nothing happened to begin with) only diff is that ant apologized and promised to behave.</p><p></p><p>he and boyfriend went off to work and I have Kaleb. this morning my mother called and told me off for a long time, telling me that ant needs my help, I should never leave for the weekends to boyfriend's house, that is my grandson and I should take care of him and ant. I reminded her I was out on my own with no help from age 18. ant is 23. </p><p></p><p>she said I keep my house too clean and should ignore the messes they make, and pitch in and pay for their food and upkeep because they are my family.</p><p></p><p>ugh and barf.</p><p></p><p>I told her if I do not leave on weekends I will lose my boyfriend and my mind. I told her ant is old enough to be on his own and well...I could go on and on ...but then I would waste time and truly...I am talking to a brick wall as she is totally against me 99.99% of my life. </p><p></p><p>so...even if it seems I am a total bee-achh...I am going to demand respect and compliance to house rules.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 27885, member: 97"] boyfriend and I discussed things and decided we will go on a day to day basis with ant, and encourage him to continue to seek other housing and establish credit. meanwhile ant is acting like nothing happened. (his dad used to do the same..be ignorant and vile and then act like nothing happened to begin with) only diff is that ant apologized and promised to behave. he and boyfriend went off to work and I have Kaleb. this morning my mother called and told me off for a long time, telling me that ant needs my help, I should never leave for the weekends to boyfriend's house, that is my grandson and I should take care of him and ant. I reminded her I was out on my own with no help from age 18. ant is 23. she said I keep my house too clean and should ignore the messes they make, and pitch in and pay for their food and upkeep because they are my family. ugh and barf. I told her if I do not leave on weekends I will lose my boyfriend and my mind. I told her ant is old enough to be on his own and well...I could go on and on ...but then I would waste time and truly...I am talking to a brick wall as she is totally against me 99.99% of my life. so...even if it seems I am a total bee-achh...I am going to demand respect and compliance to house rules. [/QUOTE]
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