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<blockquote data-quote="UKMummy" data-source="post: 685955" data-attributes="member: 19939"><p>Thank you to you both. I think it hurts him that I hold him at arms length and am wary of the things he says. He feels the distance and he hates it. But it is a coping tactic. This forum has helped so much with my acceptance that it is ok to detach. No, it is important to detach. </p><p>He admitted he has a problem with jealously last night. He had told me last year that he cannot bear to see me happy after my partner and I went on a trip to Mexico. I broached this and made it clear to him that this jealousy was HIS problem, his character flaw that he needed to work on. That I never would do things in my life to intentionally hurt him and he needed to remember that when those feeling came back. </p><p>But as wise member said to me once. He already knows. </p><p>He already knows these things but will use anything he can against me when he feels he wants too. </p><p>I have to believe this time will be different. But I know where to find my strength so thank you again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="UKMummy, post: 685955, member: 19939"] Thank you to you both. I think it hurts him that I hold him at arms length and am wary of the things he says. He feels the distance and he hates it. But it is a coping tactic. This forum has helped so much with my acceptance that it is ok to detach. No, it is important to detach. He admitted he has a problem with jealously last night. He had told me last year that he cannot bear to see me happy after my partner and I went on a trip to Mexico. I broached this and made it clear to him that this jealousy was HIS problem, his character flaw that he needed to work on. That I never would do things in my life to intentionally hurt him and he needed to remember that when those feeling came back. But as wise member said to me once. He already knows. He already knows these things but will use anything he can against me when he feels he wants too. I have to believe this time will be different. But I know where to find my strength so thank you again. [/QUOTE]
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