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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 685978" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Never give up hope, just remember this, the choices he makes are his. I have a close relative that basically supports her son to keep him out of trouble, she was just diagnosed with leukemia and I really don't know what's going to happen to the son.</p><p></p><p>Mine would still be living on my sofa with me supporting him, using drugs. He tells the most outrageous lies, it's like he lives in his on fantasy world. He scares his sister with his violent outburst, you never know what will happen. But yet, he is still convinced the street drugs help him!</p><p></p><p>I know too many that are supporting adult children with money they should be spending on themselves. in my opinion, this is hurting their chances, not helping them.</p><p></p><p>The most difficult thing we may ever face in this life time may be these children. It sucks, it's not fair, we deserve better, they deserve better. BUT, if they don't think they have a problem, will not try to get professional help, there is absolutely nothing you can do but detach and take care of yourself.</p><p></p><p>Detachment is like a grieving process, it truly takes time, I still get tested, I also know I can not go back to the way my life was before I learned to detach.</p><p></p><p>Blessings!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 685978, member: 13558"] Never give up hope, just remember this, the choices he makes are his. I have a close relative that basically supports her son to keep him out of trouble, she was just diagnosed with leukemia and I really don't know what's going to happen to the son. Mine would still be living on my sofa with me supporting him, using drugs. He tells the most outrageous lies, it's like he lives in his on fantasy world. He scares his sister with his violent outburst, you never know what will happen. But yet, he is still convinced the street drugs help him! I know too many that are supporting adult children with money they should be spending on themselves. in my opinion, this is hurting their chances, not helping them. The most difficult thing we may ever face in this life time may be these children. It sucks, it's not fair, we deserve better, they deserve better. BUT, if they don't think they have a problem, will not try to get professional help, there is absolutely nothing you can do but detach and take care of yourself. Detachment is like a grieving process, it truly takes time, I still get tested, I also know I can not go back to the way my life was before I learned to detach. Blessings! [/QUOTE]
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