Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
A visit from my son....
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="DarkwingPsyduck" data-source="post: 686256" data-attributes="member: 20267"><p>I have very little patience for the pity party games. Though I am guilty of playing them, as well. My twin sister still does it. Blames Mom. Our mother was guilty of a lot of <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />, and she may certainly have influenced our behaviors, but she did NOT make decisions for us that we knew were wrong. We do it all on our own. We do things we know are wrong. Childhood experience may serve as a possible explanation, but shouldn't count as an excuse. It is weak. It demonstrates the unwillingness to own up, and to change. And it is very offensive towards whoever you blame. I get angry when I hear her do it. I loved my Mom. And while she was far from mother of the year, she is dead now. She never made any decision for me, and certainly doesn't do so now. The problem is with us, the addict. And the blame game just shows the unwillingness, or incapability, of accepting responsibility.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DarkwingPsyduck, post: 686256, member: 20267"] I have very little patience for the pity party games. Though I am guilty of playing them, as well. My twin sister still does it. Blames Mom. Our mother was guilty of a lot of :censored2:, and she may certainly have influenced our behaviors, but she did NOT make decisions for us that we knew were wrong. We do it all on our own. We do things we know are wrong. Childhood experience may serve as a possible explanation, but shouldn't count as an excuse. It is weak. It demonstrates the unwillingness to own up, and to change. And it is very offensive towards whoever you blame. I get angry when I hear her do it. I loved my Mom. And while she was far from mother of the year, she is dead now. She never made any decision for me, and certainly doesn't do so now. The problem is with us, the addict. And the blame game just shows the unwillingness, or incapability, of accepting responsibility. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
A visit from my son....
Top