Cranky, arguing, leaving things (poopy pants on the floor. Paper towel covered in butter on the counter, instead of the trash can 18 inches behind him. Toys strewn all over the actual street in our cul de sac) laying around then getting mad when I ask him to pick them up. He passes the dirty clothes hamper on his way out the bathroom door.. He picked the pants up, balled them up and shoved them in the opposite corner of the bathroom, then *passed* the hamper on the way out. He used up more energy and effort to *not* do what I asked than it would have to just have tossed them in the hamper! He makes me tired..