My difficult child is on a high dose of Abilify-- 37mg a day, also Tenex is 3mg a day I think that is over the max, but psychiatrist says okay if no side effects... It helped behavior (a little bit) to up it. He is in a special school program but it's not doing the trick for him, improvement has to come from within, but with difficult child it's not. Counseling has not improved his effort or attitude. If he doesn't get his way he calls me a "B" or "F" or gives me the finger, kicks walls, crys like a wet baby..and he's almost 13. We've tried almost every medication, and what he's on now has worked the best. Ugh. I just wish he could be happy for anytime he is not playing games on computer or watching tv. Anytime he is not doing one of these, he is not content.