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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 707795" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Each of these incidents is a crime. These were sexual predators. The exposure to porn by a 16 year old of an 11 year old is child abuse. Ditto the woman.</p><p></p><p>I do not think it is too late to report these crimes to the police if this has not been done. As a victim of crime your stepson will be eligible for extended psychotherapy which will be free. At least a year. This is sometimes referred to as "victim witness" benefits. You would apply at the District Attorney's Office. But you need a police report first.</p><p></p><p>You must take seriously the googling of how to kill parents but there is still responsibility to get your stepson the help he critically needs. I would seriously consider residential treatment for sexually abused, troubled youth which should be covered by insurance. A referral can be made easily by a child psychiatrist.</p><p></p><p>This child has had repeated serious trauma, beginning with the death of his mother, compounded by sexual trauma. It is quite common for boys to manifest their victimization and depression by aggression and by hyper-sexualized behavior. This is typical.</p><p></p><p>A regional Children's Hospital would be your best bet for neuropsychological/ developmental testing; ask for the Child Development Department, where there should be a team consisting of social workers, neuropsychologists, child psychiatrist. You will be able to, I believe, get a referral from your pediatrician.</p><p></p><p>I would ask for an immediate emergency IEP at school. School would be responsible for paying all or part of residential treatment if he needs this. But first he needs special education status.</p><p></p><p>This child has been traumatized, is desperate and depressed. He needs protection and he needs immediate help.</p><p></p><p>My heart breaks for him, and for you.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. I hope you keep posting. Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 707795, member: 18958"] Each of these incidents is a crime. These were sexual predators. The exposure to porn by a 16 year old of an 11 year old is child abuse. Ditto the woman. I do not think it is too late to report these crimes to the police if this has not been done. As a victim of crime your stepson will be eligible for extended psychotherapy which will be free. At least a year. This is sometimes referred to as "victim witness" benefits. You would apply at the District Attorney's Office. But you need a police report first. You must take seriously the googling of how to kill parents but there is still responsibility to get your stepson the help he critically needs. I would seriously consider residential treatment for sexually abused, troubled youth which should be covered by insurance. A referral can be made easily by a child psychiatrist. This child has had repeated serious trauma, beginning with the death of his mother, compounded by sexual trauma. It is quite common for boys to manifest their victimization and depression by aggression and by hyper-sexualized behavior. This is typical. A regional Children's Hospital would be your best bet for neuropsychological/ developmental testing; ask for the Child Development Department, where there should be a team consisting of social workers, neuropsychologists, child psychiatrist. You will be able to, I believe, get a referral from your pediatrician. I would ask for an immediate emergency IEP at school. School would be responsible for paying all or part of residential treatment if he needs this. But first he needs special education status. This child has been traumatized, is desperate and depressed. He needs protection and he needs immediate help. My heart breaks for him, and for you. I am so sorry. I hope you keep posting. Take care. [/QUOTE]
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