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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 30965" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Oh, Storm, I know exactly how you feel! Sometimes all it takes is 1 min. of antagonism and it may as well be 1 yr., because of the history... we've got it all bottled up. And they can be SO contentious!!!! And SO defiant and contrary. I can't even come up with-enough words.</p><p>Mon a.m. was truly horrendous. I was angry and never wanted to see difficult child again. Really. Mon night difficult child came into my ofc and got me off the computer to listen to an owl outside his window. There was an urgency in his voice that said something was going on, so I got up immediately. We stood at the open window and whispered back and forth (when my difficult child whispers, it's truly a miracle!) and imitated the owl and talked about how big it was (4 ft wingspan!). It was wonderful. </p><p>I surprised myself by actually enjoying myself... I wasn't sure when my anger would wane. But it did.</p><p>And yours will... I hope.</p><p>I see your older difficult child isn't on any medications... all I can say is that with-o medications for my difficult child, I would have moved out by now. It is like night and day. I'm not a drug person but I'm all for results.</p><p>The amazing thing is that my difficult child can be SO sweet and funny and loving, and then such a monster. And it's all the same person. I suspect the same is true for yours.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 30965, member: 3419"] Oh, Storm, I know exactly how you feel! Sometimes all it takes is 1 min. of antagonism and it may as well be 1 yr., because of the history... we've got it all bottled up. And they can be SO contentious!!!! And SO defiant and contrary. I can't even come up with-enough words. Mon a.m. was truly horrendous. I was angry and never wanted to see difficult child again. Really. Mon night difficult child came into my ofc and got me off the computer to listen to an owl outside his window. There was an urgency in his voice that said something was going on, so I got up immediately. We stood at the open window and whispered back and forth (when my difficult child whispers, it's truly a miracle!) and imitated the owl and talked about how big it was (4 ft wingspan!). It was wonderful. I surprised myself by actually enjoying myself... I wasn't sure when my anger would wane. But it did. And yours will... I hope. I see your older difficult child isn't on any medications... all I can say is that with-o medications for my difficult child, I would have moved out by now. It is like night and day. I'm not a drug person but I'm all for results. The amazing thing is that my difficult child can be SO sweet and funny and loving, and then such a monster. And it's all the same person. I suspect the same is true for yours. [/QUOTE]
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