Hi there . Newbie looking for help. My daughter is bi-polar with personality disorder. I have had her seen by multiple therapists and doctors over her 30 yrs. She has an 8 yr. old son that we have raised from birth while she went from one bad relationship to another . She is currently in an abusive relationship with an alcoholic that she met and 4 months later decided to take her IUD out and get pregnant with my now 16 month old grandchild . The abuse started right away and we have helped her get away from him 6 times. Then she decided to marry him in Tahoe! Two more attempts to help her and she went right back, cussing me out for interfering. He is now looking at prison time for sending her to the hospital the last time. She wants me to let her and the baby move in with us. The problem is that she is extremely verbally abusive and has even hit me. We have gone thru hundreds of cycles where she is nice, but then turns nasty when she doesn't get what she wants. I am the only member of the family who even interacts with her as she has burned all those bridges. I just don't know what I can or even should do.