so i have no idea if i'm putting this in the right place. lol wow i'm dillussional tonight. yet another topic of conversation, i'm sorry you might have to relocate me to general. long story short, easy child's been holding her own alot of changes in place for her, alot of communication wtih her and i. yet her friend is being physically abused by a boy. i knew it would happen i sensed it, she kept telling me stories about expensive jewelry, controlling behaviors and a mos ago i said to her when and if you see a bruise and your friend isn't listening and she wont' and you can't go to her mom come to me. tonight she did. she trusted me to handle it for her. so tonight at dinner she started i rerouted difficult child after dinner for a bit to go color and have some down time. easy child saw the bruises in gym, while changing, friend lied i woke up with that. easy child saw some nasty verbally abusive and controlling texts telling her friend waht she shoudl and shouldn't wear by the girls' boyfriend, etc. so it was time to make the call. i called the mom i felt so bad. it' salways me seriously it really is to call. last time it was due to alcohol, time bfore that the oral sex thing, it's always me! i mean they were letting her be with teh boy every school night, every weekend. anyhow the mom cried and i totally overwhelmed her. hey how are you by the way your daughter is being physically abused by her boyfriend, verbally abused, controlled and also she's had sex. ofcourse i was gentle i talked her thru it best i could, i told her i'd help in anyway i could, that i'm always here, id' even take her out for a drink if she needed it. i just felt bad. our teenagers face alot of hard choices even harder than when alot of us were kids. just wanted to share.