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<blockquote data-quote="Weary Mother" data-source="post: 701517" data-attributes="member: 20487"><p>I am recently realizing just how true a lot of the posting to me have been on the subject of not wasting what time I have left on earth trying to re-raise or fix my children. That is painful to let go of and painful to think of what will happen to them after I am gone, but when you think of it, there is nothing I can do about it. I will eventually die (before them I hope and pray), and they will have to go on. I know this is a fact but I guess I am at the point of a light bulb going off telling me that this is not something that is a theory, but real and every day getting closer (no not today lol). I am telling both of my grown children what I will and won't do and that they need to make preparations for what life they want to have and not depend upon me or others to pick them up. Not saying I won't give compassionate love and help at times but that is different from providing emergency relief for stupid life decisions. Thanks for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Weary Mother, post: 701517, member: 20487"] I am recently realizing just how true a lot of the posting to me have been on the subject of not wasting what time I have left on earth trying to re-raise or fix my children. That is painful to let go of and painful to think of what will happen to them after I am gone, but when you think of it, there is nothing I can do about it. I will eventually die (before them I hope and pray), and they will have to go on. I know this is a fact but I guess I am at the point of a light bulb going off telling me that this is not something that is a theory, but real and every day getting closer (no not today lol). I am telling both of my grown children what I will and won't do and that they need to make preparations for what life they want to have and not depend upon me or others to pick them up. Not saying I won't give compassionate love and help at times but that is different from providing emergency relief for stupid life decisions. Thanks for listening. [/QUOTE]
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