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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 761474" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Crayola, you are lucky. I hope he does not ever grow into problems.</p><p>One of our biggest issues was that Kay was nothing like us and unfortunately that made her feel like an outsider. You can't change your personality. We tried to act in ways that she could relate to but she.knew we were.just acting.</p><p></p><p>Many adoptive kids seem to leave us often forever, from the people I know. I have no stats but I guess it's probably more than biological kids say goodbye. I think k many often want to connect with their.original identity. If they can not, like Kay has been unable to, the person gets very angry inside and rejects those even who raised and love her.</p><p></p><p>Honestly. I am not sure I would have adopted if I knew this would happen. It has disrupted and devastated all of us. But we tried. Lord. We tried.</p><p></p><p>Crayola, hold your son close and cherish him, as I am sure you already do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 761474, member: 23706"] Crayola, you are lucky. I hope he does not ever grow into problems. One of our biggest issues was that Kay was nothing like us and unfortunately that made her feel like an outsider. You can't change your personality. We tried to act in ways that she could relate to but she.knew we were.just acting. Many adoptive kids seem to leave us often forever, from the people I know. I have no stats but I guess it's probably more than biological kids say goodbye. I think k many often want to connect with their.original identity. If they can not, like Kay has been unable to, the person gets very angry inside and rejects those even who raised and love her. Honestly. I am not sure I would have adopted if I knew this would happen. It has disrupted and devastated all of us. But we tried. Lord. We tried. Crayola, hold your son close and cherish him, as I am sure you already do. [/QUOTE]
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