Our almost 20yo difficult child has been struggling in life over the past year. In summary, he graduated HS with a 3. 4 gpa and moved out to attend college, scoring a 25 on his ACT. He failed semester 1 and had an underage drinking citation. Failed semester 2 and was kicked out for failing. He moved into an apt. and got a maintenance job and started an EMT class. He failed the EMT class and lost his job. He came home to live with us conditionally. He started another EMT class but he violated a bunch of house rules and we told him it wasn't working out. He left after only one week to move back across the state with a college friend. He got a job and was fired within 4 weeks and his friend's mom kicked him out. With no job, money, or place to live, his plan is to move in with his bio mom who lost custody of him due to neglect before he turned one, as well as abandonment. He doesn't have a relationship with her. His half brother lives with bio mom and is 23. It's a dysfuctional situation. Do we let him go into this situation or risk enabling him by rescuing him? difficult child is adhd and very uncooperative and rude, and disrespectful, you get the picture. His attitude is quite narcissistic.