My adult daughter 27 years old with 5 year old daughter, broke up with her boyfriend about 1 year ago. She recently met a man (1 to 2 months ago the most) and has lost her mind. On her birthday week (last week), she was hardly not at home and a couple of times did not come home till the next day at about 9 to 10am. She did not put her daughter to sleep about 5 times that week because she would leave at 5:00pm to give her new man a ride because he does not have a car. She was not there in the morning when my granddaughter woke up several times. i believe he is almost 30 years old. She has done this same thing before. She meets a guy, goes crazy, it blows up in her face and then comes back to me. She is living with me and i am so sick and scared of her behavior because of my granddaughter. ALL the guys in her past were losers. One was violent. One was a pervert and had the habit of staring at women's breast and treated her like crap. The last one wound up living with us for a time (he is not a bad person - but he is a convicted sex offender). When i found out - my daughter said that she spoke to the girl and it was her mother who pursued charges against him because she did not want her daughter to continue relationship with him. He was 19 and she was 17 going on 18 years old. But it was same story with him! She met him and she decided that she was in love in less than 1 month. I am afraid of who she will expose my granddaughter to. She stopped going to college after the last one and does not have a job, although she is looking. She lies to me everyday. i have not met the new guy but from what i know there is something not right. He does not have a car, he wants to be a rapper or singer, he has a crappy job. Does he not care that she has a child. I can understand if she wants to go out on the weekends but during the week? What can i do to get through to my daughter and make her see that she needs to be right career wise and financially by herself first. We argue all the time. im so worried.