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Adult daughter hiding our relationship from husband and dad
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredoftrying" data-source="post: 666356" data-attributes="member: 19510"><p>Thank you for your response. I never knew there were online support groups for things like this. I have felt like I have been handling this on my own for a long time now. I have learned to be "complacent" when she is talking about her family or children, as she is so defensive to the point of attack if I mention any advice. </p><p></p><p>I do have an older daughter I have focused on more in the last few years. Once my ex found out she was growing close to my new husband ( I was divorced for 15 years and have now been married 2 years) he started taunting her and telling her she cares more for my new husband than she does him, so that has also made her start detaching and acting distant. </p><p></p><p>I feel it is so sad that someone would deliberately try to destroy relationships because of their own insecurities. This summer, we went on a family vacation (my oldest, her hubby and kids, my hubby and I) When we returned home, within 3 days I noticed a huge change in her attitude towards us. She went from calling us 3-4 times a day, to not hearing anything from her at all. I was the one who had to place the calls and ask if she was ok. This has happened just since July.</p><p></p><p>I appreciate you helping me. It does help to talk about it and not just keep everything inside.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredoftrying, post: 666356, member: 19510"] Thank you for your response. I never knew there were online support groups for things like this. I have felt like I have been handling this on my own for a long time now. I have learned to be "complacent" when she is talking about her family or children, as she is so defensive to the point of attack if I mention any advice. I do have an older daughter I have focused on more in the last few years. Once my ex found out she was growing close to my new husband ( I was divorced for 15 years and have now been married 2 years) he started taunting her and telling her she cares more for my new husband than she does him, so that has also made her start detaching and acting distant. I feel it is so sad that someone would deliberately try to destroy relationships because of their own insecurities. This summer, we went on a family vacation (my oldest, her hubby and kids, my hubby and I) When we returned home, within 3 days I noticed a huge change in her attitude towards us. She went from calling us 3-4 times a day, to not hearing anything from her at all. I was the one who had to place the calls and ask if she was ok. This has happened just since July. I appreciate you helping me. It does help to talk about it and not just keep everything inside. [/QUOTE]
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