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Adult daughter is very abusive, but I want to maintain a relationship with my granddaughter
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 724559" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If you are interested, let CPS know that in case daughter does something to lose custody, and it sounds like she could, that you would like to take baby. Otherwise she will go to foster care.</p><p></p><p>Baby was born with many drugs in her. Babies whose birthmothers take drugs and drink during pregnancy are at HIGH risk for both learning and behavioral problems, sometimes even organic brain damage. She is going to need better parenting than Daughter will know how to give. I adopted a baby who was born just with coke in his system and he was autistic and needed consistency, early intervention and an advocate for him at school. I am surprised Daughter still has custody of she is still using. Be aware that this could change at any time.</p><p></p><p>Please be prepared. But I would mostly deal with CPS, not Daughter. She will use this baby against you until she loses custody, if she does. You don't need her abuse. If she isn't taking care of Baby and you see it, do tell the CPS worker. Baby deserves to be safe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 724559, member: 1550"] If you are interested, let CPS know that in case daughter does something to lose custody, and it sounds like she could, that you would like to take baby. Otherwise she will go to foster care. Baby was born with many drugs in her. Babies whose birthmothers take drugs and drink during pregnancy are at HIGH risk for both learning and behavioral problems, sometimes even organic brain damage. She is going to need better parenting than Daughter will know how to give. I adopted a baby who was born just with coke in his system and he was autistic and needed consistency, early intervention and an advocate for him at school. I am surprised Daughter still has custody of she is still using. Be aware that this could change at any time. Please be prepared. But I would mostly deal with CPS, not Daughter. She will use this baby against you until she loses custody, if she does. You don't need her abuse. If she isn't taking care of Baby and you see it, do tell the CPS worker. Baby deserves to be safe. [/QUOTE]
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