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<blockquote data-quote="jeanne in CA" data-source="post: 627318" data-attributes="member: 18036"><p>I just wrote another reply but for some reason it did not post. If I end up with two replies, please forgive me. Thank you so much for your quick and kind reply. Like I said, this has been a terrible year. To answer your question, yes we definitely pressed charges. The reason she is not in jail is because the police are still investigating. There were 23 different accouns where the ID theft occurred, including all financial accounts, all credit accounts, and nearly all utility accounts. </p><p> </p><p>Thank you for your suggestions. I had read the article on detachment and have to admit we have had no problem in that area for the simple reason that she admits nothing even in the face of absolute proof. That makes it much easier than if she had admitted things and then lied about changing her ways. The reality is that what she has done is so horrible that we have no desire to see her. Much of the theft took place while I was 3000 miles away taking care of my terminally ill mother. </p><p> </p><p>I had been having problems for quite some time with several of our accounts and could not get to the bottom of things. She offered to "help" and I gladly accepted. That is when she started producing fraudulent documents showing me that the errors were on the part of the insitutions and that our money was exactly where it was supposed to be, in our accounts. Things just got worse and worse. I was so mentally and emotionally depleted that I actually told her and her dad that i thought the only was i would every escape all the problems was to die. We had no idea that she was creating all the problems all along. I do not feel she is mentally ill in the usual sense of the term. One psychiatrist I consulted with told me she was probably born this way. I know he was trying to reassure me that we had not somehow created this person as a result of our bad parenting. But, the reality is that if she was born this way, that is just as sad. That means she was never who we thought she was. I can't spend a lot of time thinking about that. </p><p> </p><p>We are very concerned about our son-in-law (the cop!) and our tiny grandchildren. It is hard to imagine if she is not a good daughter, how she could be a good mother. Thank you again for your support and your kindness.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jeanne in CA, post: 627318, member: 18036"] I just wrote another reply but for some reason it did not post. If I end up with two replies, please forgive me. Thank you so much for your quick and kind reply. Like I said, this has been a terrible year. To answer your question, yes we definitely pressed charges. The reason she is not in jail is because the police are still investigating. There were 23 different accouns where the ID theft occurred, including all financial accounts, all credit accounts, and nearly all utility accounts. Thank you for your suggestions. I had read the article on detachment and have to admit we have had no problem in that area for the simple reason that she admits nothing even in the face of absolute proof. That makes it much easier than if she had admitted things and then lied about changing her ways. The reality is that what she has done is so horrible that we have no desire to see her. Much of the theft took place while I was 3000 miles away taking care of my terminally ill mother. I had been having problems for quite some time with several of our accounts and could not get to the bottom of things. She offered to "help" and I gladly accepted. That is when she started producing fraudulent documents showing me that the errors were on the part of the insitutions and that our money was exactly where it was supposed to be, in our accounts. Things just got worse and worse. I was so mentally and emotionally depleted that I actually told her and her dad that i thought the only was i would every escape all the problems was to die. We had no idea that she was creating all the problems all along. I do not feel she is mentally ill in the usual sense of the term. One psychiatrist I consulted with told me she was probably born this way. I know he was trying to reassure me that we had not somehow created this person as a result of our bad parenting. But, the reality is that if she was born this way, that is just as sad. That means she was never who we thought she was. I can't spend a lot of time thinking about that. We are very concerned about our son-in-law (the cop!) and our tiny grandchildren. It is hard to imagine if she is not a good daughter, how she could be a good mother. Thank you again for your support and your kindness. [/QUOTE]
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