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<blockquote data-quote="jeanne in CA" data-source="post: 627355" data-attributes="member: 18036"><p>Thank you "recoveringenabler" for helping me get started with my new thread. I am not sure of the protocol involved so please let me know if I do something thaat is a bit awkward when replying to messages. </p><p> </p><p>In the meantime, for those of you who asked, our son-in-law did not question the money coming into their household because she had been telling all of us for years that she was working. She even pointed out her supervisor to me one time when we were out together. In addition, she said she had her own photography business that paid her very well. Once I discovered the identity theft, I also discovered she had not been working and the photography gig was only for about 6 weeks time. She claimed she finished her college degree once she got married and moved away but I found out she had never even attended the university where she claimed she got her degress. Every single discovery was another blow. I have spent the entire past 13 months digging for the truth and having to tell and retell my sordid and shameful story to one institution after another just to get them to give me our records. </p><p> </p><p>Experts have told me she sounds like she has a mental disorder, namely narcissistic personality disorder. I don't know mental disorders from the measles, but I do know she has acted with an absolute disregard for her dad and I and feels neither shame nor guilt. Her dad and I believe that ultimately she wanted to split us up so he would be out of the picture and she would be "helping" me year after years. One of the hardest things to accept was the fact that she told her dad she was spending day after day trying to keep me from having a "freaking mental breakdown." That told us she knew exactly what she was doing and what affect it had on me. Another hard thing is to accept the fact that after loving this child for 25 years I have come to the realization that I loved someone who essentially did not exist. At that point I have no idea who she will turn out to be. I only know who she is now. Thank you all again for your kindness.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jeanne in CA, post: 627355, member: 18036"] Thank you "recoveringenabler" for helping me get started with my new thread. I am not sure of the protocol involved so please let me know if I do something thaat is a bit awkward when replying to messages. In the meantime, for those of you who asked, our son-in-law did not question the money coming into their household because she had been telling all of us for years that she was working. She even pointed out her supervisor to me one time when we were out together. In addition, she said she had her own photography business that paid her very well. Once I discovered the identity theft, I also discovered she had not been working and the photography gig was only for about 6 weeks time. She claimed she finished her college degree once she got married and moved away but I found out she had never even attended the university where she claimed she got her degress. Every single discovery was another blow. I have spent the entire past 13 months digging for the truth and having to tell and retell my sordid and shameful story to one institution after another just to get them to give me our records. Experts have told me she sounds like she has a mental disorder, namely narcissistic personality disorder. I don't know mental disorders from the measles, but I do know she has acted with an absolute disregard for her dad and I and feels neither shame nor guilt. Her dad and I believe that ultimately she wanted to split us up so he would be out of the picture and she would be "helping" me year after years. One of the hardest things to accept was the fact that she told her dad she was spending day after day trying to keep me from having a "freaking mental breakdown." That told us she knew exactly what she was doing and what affect it had on me. Another hard thing is to accept the fact that after loving this child for 25 years I have come to the realization that I loved someone who essentially did not exist. At that point I have no idea who she will turn out to be. I only know who she is now. Thank you all again for your kindness. [/QUOTE]
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