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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 627364" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Jeanne, have you tried contacting any politicians in your area who have a record of being against what is presently going on with the banks? Any local representative in your town whom you can at least talk to and perhaps pick their brains as to someone who would be willing to take on your case? It sounds as if you've gone through all the steps, uncovered every single rock. I would be doing that too. It would also serve to keep me busy during such a stressful time.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you've had to deal with this without the support and/or help from your husband, that puts a burden on you. You sound level headed, determined and resolved, well, as resolved as you can be under the circumstances. It seems as if you've done every single thing you can and more. </p><p></p><p>I find it easy to believe your daughter would have another baby. Many of our kids are highly manipulative and cunning when it comes to getting their needs met by whatever means they can. I have to say, your daughter has committed extraordinary crimes against you and your husband, I completely agree with your decision to make her accountable in every way possible, I think that is really the ONLY choice you have.</p><p></p><p>I am reading a very good book about grief, you might be interested, it's called E<u>ntering the healing ground. Grief, ritual and the soul of the world </u> by Francis Weller. The author is a psychotherapist who actually lives in Northern Ca. and does grief workshops. A friend of mine took his workshop and raved about it saying it was extremely healing. Your husband sounds as if he may be stuck and sometimes we can get congested in grief over a trauma such as the one you two have experienced............if he were willing to attend something like that it might crack that protective shell he is carrying around. The author has a website, <a href="http://www.wisdombridge.net" target="_blank">www.wisdombridge.net</a>. If it feels right to you, check it out. He also does private therapy.</p><p></p><p>Your story has really touched me Jeanne, I can relate on many levels because my daughter has caused me major heartbreak and much sorrow and it's taken all I've had to get through it and come out intact. I don't know how you come through something like what you're going through because it's more then detaching from your troubled child, your daughter has done remarkable damage to you financially and betrayed you on so many levels......... it's devastating. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there Jeanne, sometimes we take our lives one moment to the next and along the way, we pray and put one foot in front of the other until we land somewhere..............I hope you land on a safe plateau on your journey <em>very soon. </em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 627364, member: 13542"] Jeanne, have you tried contacting any politicians in your area who have a record of being against what is presently going on with the banks? Any local representative in your town whom you can at least talk to and perhaps pick their brains as to someone who would be willing to take on your case? It sounds as if you've gone through all the steps, uncovered every single rock. I would be doing that too. It would also serve to keep me busy during such a stressful time. I'm sorry you've had to deal with this without the support and/or help from your husband, that puts a burden on you. You sound level headed, determined and resolved, well, as resolved as you can be under the circumstances. It seems as if you've done every single thing you can and more. I find it easy to believe your daughter would have another baby. Many of our kids are highly manipulative and cunning when it comes to getting their needs met by whatever means they can. I have to say, your daughter has committed extraordinary crimes against you and your husband, I completely agree with your decision to make her accountable in every way possible, I think that is really the ONLY choice you have. I am reading a very good book about grief, you might be interested, it's called E[U]ntering the healing ground. Grief, ritual and the soul of the world [/U] by Francis Weller. The author is a psychotherapist who actually lives in Northern Ca. and does grief workshops. A friend of mine took his workshop and raved about it saying it was extremely healing. Your husband sounds as if he may be stuck and sometimes we can get congested in grief over a trauma such as the one you two have experienced............if he were willing to attend something like that it might crack that protective shell he is carrying around. The author has a website, [url="http://www.wisdombridge.net"]www.wisdombridge.net[/url]. If it feels right to you, check it out. He also does private therapy. Your story has really touched me Jeanne, I can relate on many levels because my daughter has caused me major heartbreak and much sorrow and it's taken all I've had to get through it and come out intact. I don't know how you come through something like what you're going through because it's more then detaching from your troubled child, your daughter has done remarkable damage to you financially and betrayed you on so many levels......... it's devastating. Hang in there Jeanne, sometimes we take our lives one moment to the next and along the way, we pray and put one foot in front of the other until we land somewhere..............I hope you land on a safe plateau on your journey [I]very soon. [/I] [/QUOTE]
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