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Adult son mom's guilt needs support
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<blockquote data-quote="Catmom" data-source="post: 708592" data-attributes="member: 21332"><p>I understand exactly what you are going through. The FOG has lifted here about 3-4 weeks ago although I am not completely strong yet as the guilt and nervousness creep up on me from time to time. I see a therapist and I am also a take action type of person. Since getting off of the roller coaster, I have completely changed my son's bedroom and made it into a cat room and adopted 2 cats that desperately needed a home, and boy they are so appreciative of their new home. I do not drive thru my neighborhood anymore bc I think my son hangs out in it trying to make me feel guilty by showing that he is homeless, which he is not currently, it's just another manipulation to get back into my house. I also try to stare straight ahead when driving to work or somewhere bc if I see him walking and looking pathetic, I might get down and out and right now I am trying to protect my emotions until I am stronger. by the way....love love love my home without my son living here. No drama, loving environment with hubby, other son and new cats. I get excited to hang out at home nowadays instead of dreading going home. Hang in there, each day becomes more clear and you get stronger each day. Praying that you stay strong. Keep checking in here, these ppl are amazing to me!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Catmom, post: 708592, member: 21332"] I understand exactly what you are going through. The FOG has lifted here about 3-4 weeks ago although I am not completely strong yet as the guilt and nervousness creep up on me from time to time. I see a therapist and I am also a take action type of person. Since getting off of the roller coaster, I have completely changed my son's bedroom and made it into a cat room and adopted 2 cats that desperately needed a home, and boy they are so appreciative of their new home. I do not drive thru my neighborhood anymore bc I think my son hangs out in it trying to make me feel guilty by showing that he is homeless, which he is not currently, it's just another manipulation to get back into my house. I also try to stare straight ahead when driving to work or somewhere bc if I see him walking and looking pathetic, I might get down and out and right now I am trying to protect my emotions until I am stronger. by the way....love love love my home without my son living here. No drama, loving environment with hubby, other son and new cats. I get excited to hang out at home nowadays instead of dreading going home. Hang in there, each day becomes more clear and you get stronger each day. Praying that you stay strong. Keep checking in here, these ppl are amazing to me! [/QUOTE]
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