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Adult son steals and lies
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 721711" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ugh. I would not trust him now or maybe ever. He does sound like a sociopath and they take, take, take, have no remorse and need to be out of a family home or they will bankrupt/destroy the rest. You know darn well that getting on his feet means taking or stealing from you with no guilt on his part.</p><p></p><p>The man, your son, has been in the Army. He doesnt need to move in with his parents, even if its easy and even if he squandered all he had and took from others.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion he will never be like your loving kids and can destroy your relationships. At any rate, he certainly wont change without extreme therapy, the strong will and hard sweat to change and many years of therapy. In other words, he hasnt yet changed one wit.</p><p></p><p>Before you allow him in your sanctuary, go for marital counseling. You both must be on the same page.sounds like hub is in denial or guilty or both. You dif not cause this. Some people are wired differently in a negative way. It isnt your parenting.</p><p></p><p>If he will steal your mail, he is unfit to be allowed on your property. A restraining order may need to happen. Change your locks. If you meet up with him go only to a CROWDED public restaurant so he isnot alone with you andnot near your money.</p><p></p><p>Do not let him destroy the rest of you. I assume he does not want to go for therapy and does not try to change. Please be safe. Dont let him back. In your gut, you know it will be a disaster. Right?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 721711, member: 1550"] Ugh. I would not trust him now or maybe ever. He does sound like a sociopath and they take, take, take, have no remorse and need to be out of a family home or they will bankrupt/destroy the rest. You know darn well that getting on his feet means taking or stealing from you with no guilt on his part. The man, your son, has been in the Army. He doesnt need to move in with his parents, even if its easy and even if he squandered all he had and took from others. in my opinion he will never be like your loving kids and can destroy your relationships. At any rate, he certainly wont change without extreme therapy, the strong will and hard sweat to change and many years of therapy. In other words, he hasnt yet changed one wit. Before you allow him in your sanctuary, go for marital counseling. You both must be on the same page.sounds like hub is in denial or guilty or both. You dif not cause this. Some people are wired differently in a negative way. It isnt your parenting. If he will steal your mail, he is unfit to be allowed on your property. A restraining order may need to happen. Change your locks. If you meet up with him go only to a CROWDED public restaurant so he isnot alone with you andnot near your money. Do not let him destroy the rest of you. I assume he does not want to go for therapy and does not try to change. Please be safe. Dont let him back. In your gut, you know it will be a disaster. Right? [/QUOTE]
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