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<blockquote data-quote="Sailinggal" data-source="post: 705405" data-attributes="member: 21217"><p>You are so amazing at picking up situations from a brief few words. I thank you so much for your response and will take on board all that you say. Fortunatly I have a lovely, understanding husband who cares very much about me and my two adult children. Unfortunately he is a loss too about how to deal with my family as he can't understand why there should be any problems. We should all be happy and grateful. </p><p>As for my sister, she organised POA go to my mothers sister. She is best friends with my aunt. I've been for legal advice but unfortunately there's nothing I can do. They have now put my mum into a home. I found this out on Facebook. I found out which Home only to discover I've been barred. I have contacted the social work who organised a visitors pass for me but the visit was very confusing for my mum and very stressful for me. My daughter came with me which involved a flight so it can't be a regular thing. In the end I finished going to the Dr who has given me calming pills. Bottom line on this one is to give up the fight. </p><p>I think some of my problem is that I don't want to lose my daughter as I've already lost my mum, sister and aunt. </p><p>All I want is to be a good mum, a good daughter and it would have been nice to be known as a good sister but that's not going to happen. </p><p>I think I'll do what you say and stick with making my husband happy. </p><p>Thank you for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sailinggal, post: 705405, member: 21217"] You are so amazing at picking up situations from a brief few words. I thank you so much for your response and will take on board all that you say. Fortunatly I have a lovely, understanding husband who cares very much about me and my two adult children. Unfortunately he is a loss too about how to deal with my family as he can't understand why there should be any problems. We should all be happy and grateful. As for my sister, she organised POA go to my mothers sister. She is best friends with my aunt. I've been for legal advice but unfortunately there's nothing I can do. They have now put my mum into a home. I found this out on Facebook. I found out which Home only to discover I've been barred. I have contacted the social work who organised a visitors pass for me but the visit was very confusing for my mum and very stressful for me. My daughter came with me which involved a flight so it can't be a regular thing. In the end I finished going to the Dr who has given me calming pills. Bottom line on this one is to give up the fight. I think some of my problem is that I don't want to lose my daughter as I've already lost my mum, sister and aunt. All I want is to be a good mum, a good daughter and it would have been nice to be known as a good sister but that's not going to happen. I think I'll do what you say and stick with making my husband happy. Thank you for listening. [/QUOTE]
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