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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 708236" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Fedup, I'm so sorry for what you are going through.</p><p></p><p>You said it yourself, it's not normal. You should not have to put locks on your doors. I had to do this when my son was still living with us but he was under 18. Your stepson is 25.</p><p></p><p>I suggest you need marriage counseling and if your husband is not willing then you should go yourself.</p><p></p><p>At age 25 he should be living on his own and paying his own way. Your husband allowing him to live the way he is, is not helping him at all. It's stunting his growth. If it continues and your stepson never learns how to take care of himself he will still be living with you when he's 60.</p><p></p><p>In situations like this I like to pose the question; what would happen to him if you and your husband were killed in a car crash? Would your stepson be able to take care of himself??</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you reached out to us here.</p><p></p><p>Let us know how things are going.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 708236, member: 18516"] Hi Fedup, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You said it yourself, it's not normal. You should not have to put locks on your doors. I had to do this when my son was still living with us but he was under 18. Your stepson is 25. I suggest you need marriage counseling and if your husband is not willing then you should go yourself. At age 25 he should be living on his own and paying his own way. Your husband allowing him to live the way he is, is not helping him at all. It's stunting his growth. If it continues and your stepson never learns how to take care of himself he will still be living with you when he's 60. In situations like this I like to pose the question; what would happen to him if you and your husband were killed in a car crash? Would your stepson be able to take care of himself?? I'm glad you reached out to us here. Let us know how things are going. :notalone: [/QUOTE]
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