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Advice for my 7year old daughter with ADHD/ODD.. I am afraid there's more.
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<blockquote data-quote="Megs87" data-source="post: 721842" data-attributes="member: 22386"><p>Wow, thank you for the advice! Her father who i am no longer with, is not understanding one bit. He gets her ONE night a weekend, (sometimes 2) and since he hardly has any issues out of her in that short period he believes it all reflects back to me. I always tell him that if he kept her more than a "1 night get away" then maybe he would understand. But until i get to the bottom of her issues i don't want him to keep her more. He's really hard on her. We are not on the same page. I feel that she has every right to get upset and express herself and i try and help her cope with her emotion and think before she acts. I have always said, "its ok to be upset, we are all humans but its how we deal with things when we are upset." When he gets on to her she ofcourse will cry and he gets on to her more for crying. Like she litterally gets in trouble for crying. Like she can just stop crying. I hate it and i have actually taken her home with me when i witnessed it before. I told him that he's not raising a boy to make, "tough" that she is not only a girl, shes a very sensitive one at that. Her, 'my way or the highway' mentality comes from him. Thankfully her step mom takes up for her (as much as she can without belittling) when he does that and i am not around. Thanks again for your advice, i will definitly be looking into all of it. </p><p></p><p>Megs87</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Megs87, post: 721842, member: 22386"] Wow, thank you for the advice! Her father who i am no longer with, is not understanding one bit. He gets her ONE night a weekend, (sometimes 2) and since he hardly has any issues out of her in that short period he believes it all reflects back to me. I always tell him that if he kept her more than a "1 night get away" then maybe he would understand. But until i get to the bottom of her issues i don't want him to keep her more. He's really hard on her. We are not on the same page. I feel that she has every right to get upset and express herself and i try and help her cope with her emotion and think before she acts. I have always said, "its ok to be upset, we are all humans but its how we deal with things when we are upset." When he gets on to her she ofcourse will cry and he gets on to her more for crying. Like she litterally gets in trouble for crying. Like she can just stop crying. I hate it and i have actually taken her home with me when i witnessed it before. I told him that he's not raising a boy to make, "tough" that she is not only a girl, shes a very sensitive one at that. Her, 'my way or the highway' mentality comes from him. Thankfully her step mom takes up for her (as much as she can without belittling) when he does that and i am not around. Thanks again for your advice, i will definitly be looking into all of it. Megs87 [/QUOTE]
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