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Advice from those who've been there done that (family/long/sorry)
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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 38414" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>I agree she has to help herself. In some way. Calling you up to complain isn't really helping the situation, and it is in fact harming you. You want to be there for her, but but the reality is that she needs to call on someone else. I'm sure you have given her advice, she obviously doesn't listen, when she wants to get off this merry-go-round she will. I don't mean to sound callous, but it is what it is. You must put an end to her calling you when this is the situation. Maybe you telling her this will in fact help her-because she will have to do something different. Hopefully, she cares enough about you enough to understand. You have to take care of yourself!-Alyssa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 38414, member: 2668"] I agree she has to help herself. In some way. Calling you up to complain isn't really helping the situation, and it is in fact harming you. You want to be there for her, but but the reality is that she needs to call on someone else. I'm sure you have given her advice, she obviously doesn't listen, when she wants to get off this merry-go-round she will. I don't mean to sound callous, but it is what it is. You must put an end to her calling you when this is the situation. Maybe you telling her this will in fact help her-because she will have to do something different. Hopefully, she cares enough about you enough to understand. You have to take care of yourself!-Alyssa [/QUOTE]
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