My mom promised difficult child to take him to the fair when she goes to watch my neice show her livestock. Of course, this was before difficult child was so "off". Tomorrow is the day. Mom doesn't think she can handle difficult child on her own. If difficult child doesn't go with mom, I have to miss over half the day of work for a field trip, and that's if he doesn't throw a royal fit over not getting to go to the fair and handles school. I am debating taking the day off and going to the fair with mom so that she can keep her promise, handle difficult child, and watch her other grandchild. Input?