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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 24043" data-attributes="member: 3"><p><span style='font-size: 11pt'>For my .02 the wedding is the priority. easy child should kindly be a support and a help to the bride. She should tell her that as her best friend, the drama of her boyfriend and her aren't the priority and easy child will do anyting she can for her best friend to make this easier and happier including withdrawing if that is what the bride wants. easy child has to put the drama in a basket C until her best friend gets married. </p><p></p><p>The b/f should be told the same thing in front of best friend and mother of bride. It should be kind, loving conversation to her best friend. Despite all the drama in easy child's life the world isn't holding it's breath since they do this often. For the next two weeks the world revolves around her best friend and making this a special day. </p><p>If easy child and boyfriend continue the up and down drama they have to realize no one takes them seriously and they are in danger of being considered one of <em>those</em> type relationships that are hot and cold and dysfunctional. No one listens anymore because they have been crying wolf. I'm sure the bride is thinking "they do this all the time, why can't they wait until after the wedding?" The best friend may even be thinking this is easy child's way of stealing some of the attention from the bride. So if easy child wants to do right by her best friend, easy child needs to put her emotional drama that she is addicted to (as is b/f) to the side and focus on being a best friend. </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 24043, member: 3"] <span style='font-size: 11pt'>For my .02 the wedding is the priority. easy child should kindly be a support and a help to the bride. She should tell her that as her best friend, the drama of her boyfriend and her aren't the priority and easy child will do anyting she can for her best friend to make this easier and happier including withdrawing if that is what the bride wants. easy child has to put the drama in a basket C until her best friend gets married. The b/f should be told the same thing in front of best friend and mother of bride. It should be kind, loving conversation to her best friend. Despite all the drama in easy child's life the world isn't holding it's breath since they do this often. For the next two weeks the world revolves around her best friend and making this a special day. If easy child and boyfriend continue the up and down drama they have to realize no one takes them seriously and they are in danger of being considered one of [i]those[/i] type relationships that are hot and cold and dysfunctional. No one listens anymore because they have been crying wolf. I'm sure the bride is thinking "they do this all the time, why can't they wait until after the wedding?" The best friend may even be thinking this is easy child's way of stealing some of the attention from the bride. So if easy child wants to do right by her best friend, easy child needs to put her emotional drama that she is addicted to (as is b/f) to the side and focus on being a best friend. </span> [/QUOTE]
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