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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 693720" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Oh Albie, Albie, I am so sorry for this. Ugh. One disaster to the next it is all too familiar.</p><p> I was following along and relieved when I read this........then there was this.......</p><p></p><p> OMG. Are there instructions for them? "If parents do not respond immediately-RAMP it up a few notches." I am thinking of one of Darkwings posts about the habitual lying addicts use to get what they want. It becomes second nature. </p><p>Poor us. </p><p>How are we ever to know what is real and what is not? Did we not tell the story of the boy who cried wolf to them when they were young? We most certainly did, but it does not compute in this game of tug of war. It is hard, Alb, they would rip our hearts out to get what they want. It is beyond awful. </p><p>Well, you tried to help him with his plan. It reminds me of Tornados talk of going to Oregon. I am sure she would want me to get her a plane ticket, then if it didn't pan out it would be my fault too. I am so tired of all of it.</p><p>I hope you are okay. It is difficult enough already, do we really need higher degrees and levels of this? I am sorry you are going through this. The only thing I can say is.....BREATHE....and wait it out. Seems our d cs troubles are heaped upon us and we fret and worry, then a few days pass and they are fine. That is what I have experienced. I sometimes wonder what satisfaction is derived from whipping us up into a frenzy of worry and heartache and the only conclusion I have come to is that in that state, we just can't think clearly. </p><p>So, breathe.</p><p>One day at a time. </p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 693720, member: 19522"] Oh Albie, Albie, I am so sorry for this. Ugh. One disaster to the next it is all too familiar. I was following along and relieved when I read this........then there was this....... OMG. Are there instructions for them? "If parents do not respond immediately-RAMP it up a few notches." I am thinking of one of Darkwings posts about the habitual lying addicts use to get what they want. It becomes second nature. Poor us. How are we ever to know what is real and what is not? Did we not tell the story of the boy who cried wolf to them when they were young? We most certainly did, but it does not compute in this game of tug of war. It is hard, Alb, they would rip our hearts out to get what they want. It is beyond awful. Well, you tried to help him with his plan. It reminds me of Tornados talk of going to Oregon. I am sure she would want me to get her a plane ticket, then if it didn't pan out it would be my fault too. I am so tired of all of it. I hope you are okay. It is difficult enough already, do we really need higher degrees and levels of this? I am sorry you are going through this. The only thing I can say is.....BREATHE....and wait it out. Seems our d cs troubles are heaped upon us and we fret and worry, then a few days pass and they are fine. That is what I have experienced. I sometimes wonder what satisfaction is derived from whipping us up into a frenzy of worry and heartache and the only conclusion I have come to is that in that state, we just can't think clearly. So, breathe. One day at a time. (((HUGS))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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