And it's good news, largely due to his amazing lawyer. Physical address will go to Bart because thankfully J. Will not have to switch schools. That is why Bart went to court in the first place but then his ex sued for legal and physical custody and the Judge appointed a Parental Coordinator, which is a guardian with the power to make legal decisions, to figure out if any of the parents was a problem and to help mediate. In the end, they just had their last joint phone call with her and she told them they were good parents and that she is not recommending any custody changes. So the court case is scheduled for June and should be change in physical custody and that's all. Judge already said he is tired of seeing them in court so maybe ex will accept that. Although Bart went to court this time it was only for school...he is not interested in custody chsnges. It is ex that wants all the custody. Little J. Is now ten and a champ. In spite of him being too smart and figuring out that his parents don't like each other, he behaves well and is a straight A student. Grammy, as I am called, could not be prouder. I feel like a three year weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Phew!!!