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<blockquote data-quote="HMBgal" data-source="post: 721107" data-attributes="member: 13260"><p>I was just on your other thread asking how things were going literally one minute ago, and I found your new thread. Your wife has to be mad at somebody and you're probably the safe one right now. It wouldn't be seemly to be mad at her son, right? Even though that would seem to be a natural reaction, mixed in with all the other stuff.</p><p></p><p>When my son died, I didn't think my husband and I would make it. It was his stepson so he didn't really get it fully and I certainly was in bad shape and didn't feel like I could take care of myself. Looking back, I realize how hard it was for him and how much he held things together. I had two other children to worry about, also his step kids, and I had a free-floating resentment and my head and heart were full of things I couldn't and wouldn't say. You guys need the gift of time and hopefully you can rebuild around this. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad to hear your boy seems to have less neurological damage than you first suspected. But it sounds like a long journey. Many hugs to all of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HMBgal, post: 721107, member: 13260"] I was just on your other thread asking how things were going literally one minute ago, and I found your new thread. Your wife has to be mad at somebody and you're probably the safe one right now. It wouldn't be seemly to be mad at her son, right? Even though that would seem to be a natural reaction, mixed in with all the other stuff. When my son died, I didn't think my husband and I would make it. It was his stepson so he didn't really get it fully and I certainly was in bad shape and didn't feel like I could take care of myself. Looking back, I realize how hard it was for him and how much he held things together. I had two other children to worry about, also his step kids, and I had a free-floating resentment and my head and heart were full of things I couldn't and wouldn't say. You guys need the gift of time and hopefully you can rebuild around this. I'm glad to hear your boy seems to have less neurological damage than you first suspected. But it sounds like a long journey. Many hugs to all of you. [/QUOTE]
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