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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 635104" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I would try a different meeting. There are meetings of younger people, usually at night. </p><p></p><p>Although the people you saw are still planning on staying with their spouses, that doesn't mean they aren't going to detach from their behavior though. But I do get what you mean. I found a group that was a hodge-podge and, after a while, the message sunk into my brain that I have to detach. Nobody in the group was exactly like me, but we were all dealing with similar garbage and, in the end, I found 12 Step very valuable. If you don't, after six times, maybe a private therapist could help you better. It's hard to take this walk alone...when a child of ours is self-destructive. We need others to help us stay sane. At least at first <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 635104, member: 1550"] I would try a different meeting. There are meetings of younger people, usually at night. Although the people you saw are still planning on staying with their spouses, that doesn't mean they aren't going to detach from their behavior though. But I do get what you mean. I found a group that was a hodge-podge and, after a while, the message sunk into my brain that I have to detach. Nobody in the group was exactly like me, but we were all dealing with similar garbage and, in the end, I found 12 Step very valuable. If you don't, after six times, maybe a private therapist could help you better. It's hard to take this walk alone...when a child of ours is self-destructive. We need others to help us stay sane. At least at first :) [/QUOTE]
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