difficult child just loaded a ton of wood pellets on the porch without even a suggestion. All I said was thank you (another resolution I have is to treat him like a contributing family member, not a prince) but I wish I could be a bit less cynical. What did he do last night or what does he want so that he needs to get on my good side? He's NEVER done anything like this before. I really do think it's an alien thing, seriously.