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<blockquote data-quote="Gone" data-source="post: 641533"><p>You are doing so well stressedMama , it is SO sad , these stories where it's the little ones who suffer due to the decisions of the parent , but WE suffer too because I fully agree with your words above</p><p></p><p>If my GS was not involved in this I could get on with my life and just leave difficult child to it!!!</p><p></p><p>I HAVE to be involved somewhat for my GS's sake!!</p><p></p><p>And therein IS the stress whether I like it or not as am fuelled by the love I have for my GS , caught in the middle of all this potential chaos and disruption for him which I do NOT want for him but in my case his Mum wants him back NEXT WEEK and has said she is taking him home for Christmas whether social services like it or not which they don't , they have said a categorical NO to her but as she has parental responsibility and it is a voluntary placement in foster care at present she has a ''right'' to take him even if it is not in his best interests to do so</p><p></p><p>It is a crazy situation and I have written to SS explaining I do NOT agree with my difficult child's decision and feel it is WAY too early for her to have him as I suspect she is still drinking and even if she is NOT her so called sobriety even though she is still smoking weed only 'began' 4 weeks ago!!!</p><p></p><p>How incredibly EARLY to be even thinking about having him home , but difficult child is adamant she is ready ( yeah RIGHT ) AND IS TAKING HIM HOME NEXT WEEK</p><p></p><p>She is blaming me for telling SS of a drink driving incident a few months ago as she wanted to tell them she has stopped drinking for 5 months now which is absolute TWADDLE and its ''me'' who has foiled her plans by being honest with them and that she will do anything to get her son back including lying / witholding the truth which I will NOT do for my GS's sake , so then I get all the abuse etc from my difficult child , but fine , as long as my GS is SAFE</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gone, post: 641533"] You are doing so well stressedMama , it is SO sad , these stories where it's the little ones who suffer due to the decisions of the parent , but WE suffer too because I fully agree with your words above If my GS was not involved in this I could get on with my life and just leave difficult child to it!!! I HAVE to be involved somewhat for my GS's sake!! And therein IS the stress whether I like it or not as am fuelled by the love I have for my GS , caught in the middle of all this potential chaos and disruption for him which I do NOT want for him but in my case his Mum wants him back NEXT WEEK and has said she is taking him home for Christmas whether social services like it or not which they don't , they have said a categorical NO to her but as she has parental responsibility and it is a voluntary placement in foster care at present she has a ''right'' to take him even if it is not in his best interests to do so It is a crazy situation and I have written to SS explaining I do NOT agree with my difficult child's decision and feel it is WAY too early for her to have him as I suspect she is still drinking and even if she is NOT her so called sobriety even though she is still smoking weed only 'began' 4 weeks ago!!! How incredibly EARLY to be even thinking about having him home , but difficult child is adamant she is ready ( yeah RIGHT ) AND IS TAKING HIM HOME NEXT WEEK She is blaming me for telling SS of a drink driving incident a few months ago as she wanted to tell them she has stopped drinking for 5 months now which is absolute TWADDLE and its ''me'' who has foiled her plans by being honest with them and that she will do anything to get her son back including lying / witholding the truth which I will NOT do for my GS's sake , so then I get all the abuse etc from my difficult child , but fine , as long as my GS is SAFE [/QUOTE]
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