Well all I know to do is to sit and wait. That may sound crazy but it is about the truth. I pray to God to carry my burden of worry but find myself back in the same mindset. That is my shortcoming. I am trying not to worry but I keep seeing this pitiful person pushing a lawn mower around to make money - dirty - no bath - no change of clothes - sleeping in an abandoned trailer with no lights, etc. - and I cant help but wonder if he is still alive - I saw him last week and it wasnt a good time. He wanted money but we wouldnt give it. Instead we gave him our old lawn mower and dropped him back off - I did give him some canned goods with pop tops and apple juice. This is crazy. He cant get his job back at the cafeteria because he doesnt have a way to get there - who will wash his clothes - I asked him again if he wanted detox, rehab, etc. and he said he didnt need it. So , unless he is dead - I hope not, he will probably be back sooner or later for a change of clothes unless he finds some somewhere else - I am sure he made money - I guess - anyway I am going to try and keep my distance and not interact with him - it is not good for him nor me. We are both codependent. I just worry that he is comatose somewhere. How do you find ways not to think that - I dont think it all the time but it could happen very easily. It could also happen under my roof very easily and I dont want any part of that - so that is why he is where he is - in the mmiddle of nowhere.