So I still haven't spoken with my daughter since April.....I am so much calmer when she isn't stirring up drama, but I guess I need reassurance that it is just ok for me to not talk to her. Sometimes my inner mom rears her head and says This isn't right for you to not be speaking with your daughter! But I am so angry at her for neglecting her son !! She is living with a girlfriend right now, and doesn't have her son with her! I think she is trying to pretend she is single and free with no responsibilities! Not working of course, so obviously she is mooching off of her girlfriend! I haven't seen my grandson for two weeks and when I don't pick him up every weekend I feel like I am neglecting him!! God only knows who watches him while his dad works. I guess I just feel the need to fix everything even though I know that is impossible!!!! I know there are really no answers to this but It just makes me feel good to hear from you guys once in awhile. It reminds me I am not alone!!