Thanks again, everyone! I'm getting a little cold feet about it. I figure I will look hard- or keep looking- for a job around here and if I get one that I can live with here, I'll take it. I woke up thinking about difficult child wanting to become a vet and other things that make this a hard decision. I still may do it if I get the offer but I'd rather not take such a big risk if I don't have to.
Janet, coming out of a Department of Juvenile Justice facility, it has to be the person who has custody that signs papers at Department of Juvenile Justice when difficult child is released. But I appreciate the thought!
Lisa- I am working on finding out cost ranges for things like you suggest. I found a website that shows how much more things cost, broken down by housing, medical, food, etc., and shown in percentages. I've looked on craigslist for hawaii housing to get an idea of what I could really get for a certain amount of money. I need to find out cost for actually moving furniture and car. I know that the exact cost would be different but an idea would be helpful. Maybe I can post that question on craigslist.
slsh- I loved your description of "rock island"! I was stationed on a small island for 2 years a VERY long time ago and that happened to all of us, too! I almost have a feeling that difficult child and I would live there until he gets out of high school and maybe has some college, then move back to mainland. I'm sure he would have difficulty adjusting and we used to love going on mini-vacations to various places that we wouldn't be able to do there.
It really worries me to hear that dogs have to be quarrantined for 90 days. I'd heard that happens when moving to a different country, but shoot, we are moving from mainland and the dogs have always had their shots. I could understand if they needed to get vaccinated for more things before going, but I don't understand quarantining to go to HI from mainland.
If that's the case, it would be nice if I could get the dogs out there and quarantined early on and get a home set up but not take the car yet, then when difficult child is released, drive him cross-country and fly over and have the car shipped. It will be mid-school year and any PO would probably have a fit over that though. But it might be worth asking about! It would be cheaper than flying and moving the car from the east coast and difficult child would really enjoy it. I've driven cross-country twice and it was nice.
ETA: I just checked HI's current requirements for bringing a dog. It's possible to get them in without a quarantine but they have to be micro-chipped and along with a bunch of verifiaction for health and rabies shots, there has to be a blood test for rabies that the HI agency recieives at least 120 days prior to the pet's arrival. Well, I guess if I take this job that will be the first thing I have to do. I also will have to get the micro-chips. Then the dogs will be quarantined until 120 days after they rec'd the stuff on the blood test. Also, the owner has to pay fees for getting the dog in. This will probably be $1000 just to get the dogs over there.