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<blockquote data-quote="Just keep swimming" data-source="post: 11656" data-attributes="member: 211"><p>UPDATE!!!!</p><p></p><p>And the saga continues!!</p><p></p><p>I have a call in to psychiatrist because: Last evening, while at a celebratory BBQ for easy child 2's girlfriend, we had an incident! I can't go into great detail because some of the kids involved are foster children of girlfriend's mom and so there is some confidentiality issues here. Aly was not the main person involved, but was in the room and did not find an adult to help her with the situation. It could have been handled in a very matter of fact/strict way, but girlfriend's 3 yo son was involved and she freaked out. Now I am just waiting for CPS to show up at my door! I am so freaking scared right now. We already have that huge "red check" by our names, this just might topple the whole thing. Be reassured, Aly was NOT the perpetrator, but was a bystander. We had a long, calm talk with her and I THINK she understood why not coming to get an adult was as bad as being involved in the first place. Please, please, please, keep us in your good thoughts and prayers. I really don't think I can handle CPS in our lives again.</p><p></p><p>The other thing is, Aly's at school therapist just called. Said Aly is obsessing on bio family again. She drew a picture of a heart, with a line down the middle, with the right side full of little stick people with curly hair and the left side with only lines in it. Next to the people side she wrote "birth family" next to the left she left blank. She told therapist that is how she feels "empty and hollow and not where she belongs". therapist feels we need a family session and I totally agree. She also told him that she gets weekly visits with bio mom "now that she is out of jail". Bio mom wasn't in jail, is not in this state and has NOT been visiting with Aly.</p><p></p><p>I am afraid she is losing touch with reality again. She was doing sooooooo well, I am so sad and scared for her. </p><p></p><p>In home counseling will be this afternoon, we are jumping on this right away. </p><p></p><p>I am just not is a good space right now. Please help!!</p><p></p><p>Vickie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Just keep swimming, post: 11656, member: 211"] UPDATE!!!! And the saga continues!! I have a call in to psychiatrist because: Last evening, while at a celebratory BBQ for easy child 2's girlfriend, we had an incident! I can't go into great detail because some of the kids involved are foster children of girlfriend's mom and so there is some confidentiality issues here. Aly was not the main person involved, but was in the room and did not find an adult to help her with the situation. It could have been handled in a very matter of fact/strict way, but girlfriend's 3 yo son was involved and she freaked out. Now I am just waiting for CPS to show up at my door! I am so freaking scared right now. We already have that huge "red check" by our names, this just might topple the whole thing. Be reassured, Aly was NOT the perpetrator, but was a bystander. We had a long, calm talk with her and I THINK she understood why not coming to get an adult was as bad as being involved in the first place. Please, please, please, keep us in your good thoughts and prayers. I really don't think I can handle CPS in our lives again. The other thing is, Aly's at school therapist just called. Said Aly is obsessing on bio family again. She drew a picture of a heart, with a line down the middle, with the right side full of little stick people with curly hair and the left side with only lines in it. Next to the people side she wrote "birth family" next to the left she left blank. She told therapist that is how she feels "empty and hollow and not where she belongs". therapist feels we need a family session and I totally agree. She also told him that she gets weekly visits with bio mom "now that she is out of jail". Bio mom wasn't in jail, is not in this state and has NOT been visiting with Aly. I am afraid she is losing touch with reality again. She was doing sooooooo well, I am so sad and scared for her. In home counseling will be this afternoon, we are jumping on this right away. I am just not is a good space right now. Please help!! Vickie [/QUOTE]
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