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<blockquote data-quote="HerBadMom" data-source="post: 685948" data-attributes="member: 20287"><p>Thank you for reading through all of that mess everyone. </p><p></p><p>She was adopted at birth, I picked her up from the hospital. She had supervised visits with her BM when she was an infant for an hour every couple of weeks. I was a stay at home mother, but she did start preschool with our developmentally disabled mentally retarded county group where they did therapy with her (the standard for all special needs adoptions, she's considered hard to place because she's biracial and because her mother had 4 previous children taken). We loved and cherished her just like the other kids, so I don't know how she could be attachment disordered, but she does act like it. Her younger sister, also adopted, came from similar circumstances and is also biracial, but has none of these problems. </p><p></p><p>I feel like the worst person ever, a terrible mother and a failure at parenting, even though the other kids are great kids and people. I've actually felt hatred for her and I don't hate people, I truly try to see the best. </p><p></p><p>It means a lot to me that you were all supportive of my rant and have given me some great ideas for things I've never heard of before. Thank you. I look forward to getting to know you all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HerBadMom, post: 685948, member: 20287"] Thank you for reading through all of that mess everyone. She was adopted at birth, I picked her up from the hospital. She had supervised visits with her BM when she was an infant for an hour every couple of weeks. I was a stay at home mother, but she did start preschool with our developmentally disabled mentally retarded county group where they did therapy with her (the standard for all special needs adoptions, she's considered hard to place because she's biracial and because her mother had 4 previous children taken). We loved and cherished her just like the other kids, so I don't know how she could be attachment disordered, but she does act like it. Her younger sister, also adopted, came from similar circumstances and is also biracial, but has none of these problems. I feel like the worst person ever, a terrible mother and a failure at parenting, even though the other kids are great kids and people. I've actually felt hatred for her and I don't hate people, I truly try to see the best. It means a lot to me that you were all supportive of my rant and have given me some great ideas for things I've never heard of before. Thank you. I look forward to getting to know you all. [/QUOTE]
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