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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 759483" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Hi, there. I am sorry for all that you are going through. I recently had a bad time myself. I'm getting better at being resilient. For a decade, I felt like a horrible evil person if I did not allow my abusive daughter to abuse me. It was so hard to get out of my mindset that "My life is over if my daughter isn't in it" and "As a Mother, this must be my fault. Since it's my fault SND I'm her mother, I can not reject her behavior no matter what." It almost cost me my marriage and my other kids suffered. Took NarAnon and private therapy to make me see that it's not my fault how an adult behaves and that I need to reject abusive behavior from anyone, even her.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I can not tell you what to do. But I can let you know I care and have been there. Finally we are in a please where even.if we never see Kay again, she can not abuse us. I accept this now. I could not for a long time.</p><p></p><p>Sending prayers and peace and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 759483, member: 23706"] Hi, there. I am sorry for all that you are going through. I recently had a bad time myself. I'm getting better at being resilient. For a decade, I felt like a horrible evil person if I did not allow my abusive daughter to abuse me. It was so hard to get out of my mindset that "My life is over if my daughter isn't in it" and "As a Mother, this must be my fault. Since it's my fault SND I'm her mother, I can not reject her behavior no matter what." It almost cost me my marriage and my other kids suffered. Took NarAnon and private therapy to make me see that it's not my fault how an adult behaves and that I need to reject abusive behavior from anyone, even her. I can not tell you what to do. But I can let you know I care and have been there. Finally we are in a please where even.if we never see Kay again, she can not abuse us. I accept this now. I could not for a long time. Sending prayers and peace and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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