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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 641855" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>I think you are misunderstanding me MWM and yes, he would feel guilty about throwing her out if he knew she had nowhere to go, he's not that cold hearted.</p><p></p><p>Again, my intent is not to guilt him with that response at all actually. What I am trying to say is, if things go south and If he chooses to bring me into it in any way , shape or form which is what I am worried about. If that happens, I am simply going to text him a copy of what he said and then I will certainly not engage him any further. There is nothing he could say after that. I will not engage him after that for anything. What he decides to do will be up to him. I accepted that from the first minute he let difficult child move in there. I am not going to lie, I would love for him to honor his word, especially since he thinks so highly of himself and puts me down all the time. He says he could do so much better with her than I ever could, damn right the responsibility is on him now. He would make himself look so bad if he kicked difficult child out and I plan to remind of him of that if he ever does, not for guilt purposes but for all the crap he talked. I guess you literally have to see the text messages he sent me to understand. Maybe I will post them. In addition, no matter how bad my daughter can be, I don't ever want to see her homeless. If worse came to worse, and she showed up at my door step, I would let her move back in but I am going to do my absolute best not to let that happen so easily and that's because of all the tips you and others have given me. If they get things start going bad, which I pray that they don't, I plan on staying far, far away and not answering my phone from either of them! Furthermore, my daughter will not know where I live. I am just saying, I am not going to make easy for either of them because like you said, he does not like anything or anyone interfering with his life even if she was a saint, so I would not put it past him to somehow sneakily suck me back in for the soul purpose for me to take her back because he would do that. Yes, that he would do. However, if he knows she has no place else to go (I move out at the end of the month), he won't kick her out. Yes, my brother will feel very guilty. He does love difficult child very much whatever "love" means for him. If anything he will help her find some place else to stay. The only way he would kick her out is if she stole from him or did something horrid, which she is not a thief and doesn't do anything horrid. She will not act out with him because SHE IS AFRAID OF HIM.. So the things that she does here, she wouldn't dare do with him because SHE KNOWS better. I'm not saying she will be perfect for him, not by any means, but she knows not to get with him like she gets with me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 641855, member: 18233"] I think you are misunderstanding me MWM and yes, he would feel guilty about throwing her out if he knew she had nowhere to go, he's not that cold hearted. Again, my intent is not to guilt him with that response at all actually. What I am trying to say is, if things go south and If he chooses to bring me into it in any way , shape or form which is what I am worried about. If that happens, I am simply going to text him a copy of what he said and then I will certainly not engage him any further. There is nothing he could say after that. I will not engage him after that for anything. What he decides to do will be up to him. I accepted that from the first minute he let difficult child move in there. I am not going to lie, I would love for him to honor his word, especially since he thinks so highly of himself and puts me down all the time. He says he could do so much better with her than I ever could, damn right the responsibility is on him now. He would make himself look so bad if he kicked difficult child out and I plan to remind of him of that if he ever does, not for guilt purposes but for all the crap he talked. I guess you literally have to see the text messages he sent me to understand. Maybe I will post them. In addition, no matter how bad my daughter can be, I don't ever want to see her homeless. If worse came to worse, and she showed up at my door step, I would let her move back in but I am going to do my absolute best not to let that happen so easily and that's because of all the tips you and others have given me. If they get things start going bad, which I pray that they don't, I plan on staying far, far away and not answering my phone from either of them! Furthermore, my daughter will not know where I live. I am just saying, I am not going to make easy for either of them because like you said, he does not like anything or anyone interfering with his life even if she was a saint, so I would not put it past him to somehow sneakily suck me back in for the soul purpose for me to take her back because he would do that. Yes, that he would do. However, if he knows she has no place else to go (I move out at the end of the month), he won't kick her out. Yes, my brother will feel very guilty. He does love difficult child very much whatever "love" means for him. If anything he will help her find some place else to stay. The only way he would kick her out is if she stole from him or did something horrid, which she is not a thief and doesn't do anything horrid. She will not act out with him because SHE IS AFRAID OF HIM.. So the things that she does here, she wouldn't dare do with him because SHE KNOWS better. I'm not saying she will be perfect for him, not by any means, but she knows not to get with him like she gets with me. [/QUOTE]
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